New Blogs/Pushing Comfort

I had another blog before this one, but I've decided to reset the Nintendo and kick off with a fresh start. I'm now officially going to be active with this blog along with my other one at http://quick-adventures.blogspot.com.

I want to start off by explaining what my blogs are about, they're in no way about me giving advice, or in any way targeted towards other people, it's more like a catalogue of my experiences and things I am learning along my own journey, if anyone is able to take anything from it that's great if not, and you decide to read, I hope enjoy.

When I started my original blog about two months ago, I realize I was at a different place in my pickup. I had only gone out trying pickup a few times, and just attended the Global PUA Summit, so I would say I was still fairly fresh. I'm still really new to pickup, but I feel I have a better head of experience on my shoulders than I had two months ago. And I guess I would say that's a great thing, being able to look back and two months ago and look at myself now, I have to say its amazing self-encouraging to be able to see real tangible change within me.

At this moment, I'm currently away from, the pickup capitol of the world, LA, and am visiting my family. Being away from all the PUA's I normally associate with, has really given me time to analyze those I used to know, before I became involved on this community. So far, I've been seeing lot people, not just guys, who are still so plugged into the matrix. In my recent experiences I've been realizing that people are horrified of change, especially guys who are so scared of the word, they try to shield themselves with their ego. They say things such as "that's just not me", "I can never do that", they say this as they continue to slip into a sweet and happy place called denial. Which trust me I'm not one to judge, if someone is happy with where they stand, that's great, because that's what suits them. But when I see these guys who are constantly complaining and obviously not comfortable with them self or their standing in life, yet they do nothing about it. This just seems absurd to live in a constant state of suffering. I wish I could help everyone, as much as I've been helped by the other guys I've encountered within the community. Because I just can't state enough how grateful, I am to this community for really helping me turn my life around.

I've just come to the conclusion that if anyone does want to unplug themselves from the social matrix we live in they have to do it in some part on their own. They have to take the first steps, and if you're in the community you've already taken those steps, which is amazing, and I've realized just as you have to unplug yourself, you have to constantly keep pushing yourself outside those comfort zones you may become accustom to, in order to prevent yourself from falling into the luring comfort and happiness that I've stated before as denial.

Thanks for tuning in whoever took the time out of their busy schedule to review my words,

- Q