Brad P Presents a Genuine System, a Genuine Guru

I want to start not by expressing how the Workshop started or how great it was, but with describing how I first met Brad.

I had been attending the 2008 PUA SUMMIT, I had only been in the game for about two weeks, and got a good deal on a ticket. I read about all the speakers attending, and was already curious about Brad he was the only one with no picture.

Someone pointed him out to me when he first got there, and as I had been walking out on the lunch break I noticed him walking in front of me and another new guy attending. I approached just because I wanted to say, hello and because I’d been so curious to who he was. He said he was on his wait to get a bite to eat and said me and the other person attending should join.

WHO THE HELL DOES THIS? I felt so awesome, we went to Quizno's, there was so much I wanted to ask, but didn’t know where to start, so I just kind of stayed shut, as the other guy bombarded with questions.

But when Brad found that I had only been in the Game for a couple weeks, he explained information overload, and gave me a few important tips on not to get too caught up in information, just go there and do it.

I met him in June, I went on my own for three months, then in September I ran into Brad again as he gave a local talk in LA. Seeing him talk there again, and knowing that he had a true interest in helping others, by how he invited two new guys out of no where to join him for a sandwich and take interest in us, I felt comfortable, thinking that I if I was going to take a workshop with anybody to take it with him, especially with all the psychological and teaching background which he has.

I signed up and received the Underground Dating Seminar audio CD’s which is an amazing 12 hours of lecturing, basically giving you all you need to know about pickup. With the two months between signing up and taking the workshop I practiced just about everything on those CD’s, and I felt it advanced me tremendously.

So enough with the intro I the day of the workshop eventually came around, and it was with out a doubt an amazing experience. The first night was a small lecture and was primarily a test to see where we, the students, were at in our game.

Before I go on, I’d like to mention about Brad’s coaches, Magic and Bobby, absolutely amazing coaches. Their feedback was rich, their evaluations were powerful, and they didn’t hold back which I liked.

I was paired with Magic when we first went out, and received a few emotion smacks in the face when he flat out told me, I needed to spread the love to everyone, after I said I didn’t want to approach some girls, because they were overweight. I realized how fucked up my thinking was in that sense.

Magic was amazing, it was pretty awesome to see him make out with a girl in front of her boyfriend, sadly he had to leave around 1:30 for a big trip. And wasn’t able to stick around for the rest of the workshop, although I wish he could have. He also identified my kino was too platonic, and showed me how the right way, by demoing, which was amazing.

Bobby was fist over approaching, and other things with me, I was able to tell him were I was having trouble in my end game and get great feedback from him, along with some great stories to tell to the girls. At the end of the night, Bobby pulled, which had been the first pull I’d ever seen in my life, took a lot of self doubting out of my mind.

HA! Talk about taking away self doubt, Brad got a hand job in the street, never thought that could be anywhere close to my reality.

At the end of the first night, I realized I needed to appreciate everyone in field, pickup on cues that the girls wanted to leave with me, and to change my kino from more platonic to sexual.

The next day I was amazed at how personally tailored the information, instruction, and everything else with the workshop was run, according to each individual students place not just in their game, but in their life. For me it was amazing to also see the difference from two of the students who had never approached or done game before, at the beginning of the workshop, to at the end of it, extremely different in the way they looked, talked carried themselves. It had taken me months to tweak some of those anxieties and small things, that they had gotten over within a day.

The second day we split into groups again, and went out after some more lecturing, everyone was sent on different tasks with different coaches based on where they were at. New guys, did social anxiety, some guys did fashion, I got to do some incredible day game with Bobby. It was great to go in there, have him listen and observe everything, and give instant feedback identifying exactly what went wrong or right in certain situations. Made me pay more attention to a lot of little things.

The second night we got to go out, again, to a bigger venue than the first night, we got to watch more demos, apply what we had learned during the day, I was seeing results from making little tweaks to what I’d learned earlier and picked up from the night before.

Brad was more than happy to demo on anything, demonstrate anything, even follow and watch whenever I or any other student needed/wanted feedback.

I eventually got to the point of nearly pulling this one girl to the bathroom, lol, I ejected ran for Brad to get feedback, and he showed me little things to keep in mind and look for when pulling to the bathroom. All of which I’d never thought of before, in the end, I couldn’t get it to work out, some slight miss-calibrations on my part. But getting know and see how it was done, or how Brad would do it, was good to hear.

I didn’t initially sign for the third day, but decided I needed to, so I signed up last minute, the last day, we worked on a lot of inner game, I was able to tackle and go over things, I didn’t expect would be covered on a Dating Workshop, but it all seemed to help in the end, and I was really grateful and appreciative for have taken to time to stay that extra day.

In the end it wasn’t a one-size fits all type of system or workshop, it was carefully crafted to each persons needs, each individual’s style, and I’m glad for having invested in myself by embarking on this experience.

- Q