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Wedding Crashers
Submitted by Quick on Wed, 12/17/2008 - 12:02pm.
In response to a completely dead bloggosphere at the moment, I've decided to write up a quite something.
I watched Wedding Crashers for the 167th time the other day, and I realized something. For anyone who hasn't seen it you certainly should, its a great movie. But Owen Wilson's character, goes for this girl in the movie. And there are so many things standing in his way.
1.) She's the Secretary of State's daughter
2.) She has a boyfriend
3.) She later finds out they plan on getting engaged
In that type of situation I would have said, "oh its over" right from the very start, but still he pursues her all he says throughout that movie is "I just need more time"
I know its fictional, but something is to be said about that type of confidence. I mean whenever I've fucked up in set or on a D2 is when I start doubting myself for no apparent reason. The thought loop of negativity gets started and I begin to think, what about this? What if she's thinking this? Or what if I'm wrong? Instead of what if I'm right.
At this moment of time, I don't have loads of experience to back any sort of confidence like this, but I figure from now on I'm going to suck up all the bullshit and fake it, till I make it.
I feel instead of thinking in this negative thought loop, we worked on thinking in a positive one all the sub-communicated confidence would just make more things happen instead of flop.
I just barely became conscious of this sort of thing, and I have been trying my best to fake it till I make it, and so far its turned a couple situations around for me, and has just been making me feel so much more confident and in control when I'm going for what I want. Not saying its perfect, I still get lots of doubts, but as of now I'm consciously trying to be aware of my thought processes and train myself to be in control of them.
- Q
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It's good to hear from one
It's good to hear from one of the bloggers after so long! I just ordered this cd set: http://www.badboywithaheart.com/magneticmindset/index.htm because I have many inner game issues, myself. I can't wait to get it and see if I can get women to approach me. This may very well be the last seduction system I'm ever going to buy.
Be Warry
I'd watch out man, although I don't know anything about this product, any product that would advertise that women will chase you just by doing this...I feel is a lot of bull shit, because it's just not normally in a woman's nature to make the first move, especially if its cold approaching. That responsibility is left to us.
If you're working on Inner Game, I've heard RSD's Blueprints is one of the best things you can invest in, the people I know who have purchased it have phenomenal game and a great presence. I'm looking forward to getting it one day myself.
- Q
Thank you for your concern,
Thank you for your concern, but I already ordered the product. And the reason I take the product so seriously is because it coincides with an experiment that I was going to do, anyway. I've also seen tons of cold approaches done by women (maybe even more so than done by men!), so I know they are just as capable as a man of doing them, too.
I get approached by women
When I was younger and anti-social, I used to just sit at the bar with my drink and see how long it took before a woman would approach me. I had women, but no social life and few friends. And the women who hit on me weren't all that great.
It's more empowering to be the selector, but there's certainly nothing wrong with becoming more approachable. I really can't see a downside.
http://thespgdiaries.blogspot.com
Nothing Wrong
There is nothing wrong with becoming more approachable, but as you said the ones that do approach aren't the type of girls we all got into this for, the purpose for all of this is to become that selector.
Still no downside as you said,
- Q
Well, like I said, I bought
Well, like I said, I bought the program because it falls in line with an experiment that I was going to attempt in the first place. If you've read my former posts, you might realize that I'm a big believer in Law of Attraction (I've had considerable success with it already) and a fan of the Seth material (as well as Abraham-Hicks). Basically, Seth says that all you experience out of reality comes from your beliefs about reality. So I was going to really work on changing my beliefs and such. And, frankly, I want to live the life of a rock n' roll porn star! Feel free to create your own reality as you want it to be if you choose to do the same experiment.
Products I recommend: http://www.beliefbusterkit.com/
http://www.amazon.com/Nature-Personal-Reality-Practical-Techniques/dp/18...
http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/Make-Your-Dreams-Come-True-Pamela-Os...
http://www.amazon.com/Law-Attraction-Science-Attracting-More/dp/04461997...
As far as the quality of the women that approach you is concerned, try and modify your beliefs about what kind of woman approaches you and see what happens. Certainly there are aspects of each woman that approaches you that you can appreciate (even if it's only the fact that they approach you) and from that (as well as aspects from the women you want to pursue) you can construct the ideal type of woman to approach you! Plus you would have to modify your beliefs as to what kind of person you need to be--if you need to change at all--to be the person that attracts those kind of women (and remember, nothing is set in stone, your tastes are likely to change). Just some suggestions. It would be cool to get more people in on this experiment! This book might be of help: http://www.amazon.com/Re-Creating-Your-Self-Christopher-Stone/dp/1561703... though I haven't gotten around to reading it yet.
As long as the people entering the experiment are sane and level-headed, and able to accurately discern what's really working and what's not, as well as having the balls to uncover and change beliefs about themselves they might rather remain hidden, there should be no problems.
Thanks
Hey Thanks man,
I really like what you wrote, makes tons of sense, that's actually a much better way to be looking at things. Much more positive. I'll probably take a look into those books.
- Q
I'm glad you like it. I also
I'm glad you like it. I also want to add that I recommend reading Abraham-Hicks stuff, from 'Ask and it is Given' to all that's published after that book (using a highlighter pen) in conjunction with all the books I mentioned above. All of it ties in perfectly together--with the exception of digging out and changing core beliefs goes significantly deeper than Abraham-Hicks want to go. But using Abe's exercises to help change beliefs seems to be the perfect way to go! Plus Abe's underlying view of "the cutting edge" ties in perfectly with Seth's viewpoints.
Yea, I've seen so many
Yea, I've seen so many people who I'd swear are PUAs but they're not.
Wedding crashers is also a great film
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