5 Solid Ways Non Guru Friends Can Help Each Other

I loved BigSend's post about Guru's.

I've learned a ton from "Guru's" over the years but part of what I had to learn was to be my own "Guru" to reach MY GOALS.

I've also learned that support from friends is HUGE.
In the comments, some people made an awesome point - your AFC friends are going to give you some really bad advice when it comes to women.

So true.

One of the first things you learn about dating is that many preconceived notions about woman and attraction are the exact opposite of what you may think.

So how can you and your friends help each other - even if you are still AFC?

1) Work with each other to set specific short term and long term goals. When you make your goals public with your friends, it will compel you to work on them. Make a point of reviewing your goals every Sunday night.

Going through a program like what SPG is doing with Hypnotica is a great goal.

2) Start exercising together. Having an exercise partner will make you work out even on days when you don't want to. Despite the suggestions that looks don't matter, being fit and in shape will help you attract women. You'll also feel better about yourself which even more important.

3) Practice and role play with each other. For example, everyone agrees SS works but everyone also agrees it sounds creepy if it isn't congruent and natural.

This is the answer.

I mentioned in a different post how much benefit I got by helping BigSend with the Riker product. It was also a ton of fun.

If you listen to this interview, you'll hear that Riker and Hypnotica would just riff NLP/Hypnotic Language on each other for fun and practice.

4) Be positive. Compliment your friends on their progress and success. Too often we focus on the negative - I know I do - but it's more powerful to find the positive and call it out.

I learned that's how they train killer whales at Sea World. Killer whales are so huge, you can't force them to do anything. But if you reinforce every tiny bit of progress, eventually, you have an amazing show.

Do the same with your friends. Make a point to find progress and call it out. Let the negative go...

5) Find out what strengths you and your friends already possess. Too often we think that we have to have ALL the answers before we can offer advice. The truth is most "Gurus" are a "freakshow" at best (as SPG put it) and may be able to get a blow job in a strip club restroom but has no idea how to keep a super high quality women happy.

On this blog, I know SPG knows more about keeping MLTRs than most of the guys who call themselves "Gurus". And he got laid a ton more than most Gurus during that phase.

BigSend is a super nice guy. Hanging out with him has made me a better, more generous person. He may not be amazing at "flash game" but I know he is getting more sex than a bunch of so called "experts".

Quick is out there working hard and staying positive. I got fired up by his post about how information just clicks at some point. Great job!

BigSend has thrown down the gauntlet and he is making this site available for people who want to grow.

And I want to be a part of that too.

Who else wants to join us?