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Submitted by BigSend on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 9:58pm.
Inner Game, More Spiritual Approach:
Inner Game, More Structured Approach:
Inner Game, NLP Specific:
Relationship Management:
Basic Social Skills/Personal Development:
Conversation Skills & Flirting:
Methods:
Approaching
Seduction:
Sex:
Female Psychology:
Online Dating:
Inner Game, More Spiritual Approach:
- "Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
Inner Game, More Structured Approach:
Inner Game, NLP Specific:
- Hypnotica's Collection of Confidence/Reinventing Yourself
- Hypnotica's Sphinx of Imagination Hypnosis CD
- "Get the Life You Want" by Richard Bandler
Relationship Management:
Basic Social Skills/Personal Development:
Conversation Skills & Flirting:
Methods:
Approaching
Seduction:
Sex:
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- Seems to have gone underground… good luck finding it :(
- David Shade's Masterful Lover
Female Psychology:
- The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine
I saw that Thundercat's Art
I saw that Thundercat's Art of Approaching is in your recommended list. He just released a program called Looks Don't Matter, and I was wondering if you or anyone else would know if that might be a good program to buy? As it purports to have everything I would want to learn in one program (being as I'm fat, ugly, and balding:)).
@Clam
I saw the video advertising that, and for me personally, I don't think I'd put my money on it man. It looked like too much BS and too much marketing.
I mean I wouldn't recommend buying too many products either, because field experience is the best product out there, and its free.
- Q
Thank you for the reply.
Thank you for the reply. Frankly, I always feel like there is too much marketing hype with Thundercat. And don't worry about me buying too much stuff. I did that years ago and got burned; and I just don't have much money at this time.
However, I will probably be buying Dr. Paul's stuff, sooner or later, since he seems to cover all the stuff Thundercat is now covering.
Hey Clamshellninja, I read
Hey Clamshellninja,
I read TC's art of approaching book back when it was in the first or second edition and its really great overview of just approaching, breaking the ice and maybe keeping things going.
I don't know too much on his other products yet.
As for fat, that is something I have struggled with for awhile---hence "big" send---and ugly is really opinion. That is something huge I learned the hard way.
I have been called ugly by lots of girls and it really effected me badly---especially in high school---but I have also been called hot too, especially recently when I have been working on my character and masculinity. That sounds a bit inconsistent and relative, right? Was it my looks or aura that was ugly to a woman?
I really stand by the statement that looks to a guy is the same as confidence, control, masculinity to a woman (at least to the women I want to be with).
But fat, I started a new, very simple diet which I think I'll make a post about. I have been losing some weight fairly fast and consistently.
Basically, I eat only one, good, tasty meal a day (anything I want), and that is all. Just one meal of anything: pizza, all you can eat buffet, full bowl of pasta, etc. Then I sorta go hungry the rest of the day and following morning. I don't eat another meal for 24 hours.
Then I jog around my block a few times a week. I'll write more about it soon.
So I know I went on a slight tangent here, but I just wanted to point out that fat is curable, ugly is 100% relative, and if you are balding, maybe just shave your head and sport the full bald look? Style said that if done right (with good clothes) it can look sexy.
I'd look around the community for more info on that.
So the products I listed are productss I have gone through. I can't really speak for TC's other products, but I thought Art of Approaching was very well done and worked.
I think TC has a 30 day guarantee, so you may want to check it out and perhaps return it if it sucks? Make sure he has that guarantee though.
Thank you for the overview
Thank you for the overview of Art of Approaching. I actually bought it years ago, along with too much other seduction stuff. By the time I got around to it, my password expired and I couldn't access it. Nor would Thundercat do anything so that I could get access to it. So I'm very leery about buying anything from Thundercat.
I knew of a guy who was on a diet similar to yours. Except that he would eat fruits and vegetables whenever he was hungry throughout the entire day (always had a tupperware full of vegetables and maybe fruit beside him) and then would eat one large meal of whatever else he wanted during the day. He stayed very thin. He also said that you should never do anything that puts stress on your digestive system.
I also already shave my
I also already shave my head:).
And to clarify what the guy said about the diet: never put stress on your digestive system from either going hungry or by being overstuffed.
Hey, could people post
Hey, could people post products that they know work for others' consideration (which I'm going to do anyway, in this message :-))? I bought this product called ProfileHer http://www.profileher.com/ and it's quite amazing. You can even try it on yourself and your friends--it's VERY accurate! Despite being marketed for finding out women's deepest personality type, it works exactly the same for men; because the drives are the same for both sexes. I especially like using it to find out how accurately personality types are portrayed in movies.
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